Skip navigation! Story from Sex. There seems to be a never-ending quest to conquer shower sex, and the number of tips are almost endless. You think that one-legged standing sex position is going to work out for you and then … it really doesn't. You wind up with this awkward, dry humping and grinding situation that often ends in frustration and general angst. So is having good sex in the shower even worth trying?
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Toys should be 1 billion percent water safe lest you bust your toy or you know, worse. Instead, hold the side of the tub or use shower stools meant to handle bodily weight. And TBH, non-slip mats never hurt anyone either. Besides safety, the next most important key for having enjoyable shower sex is the lube sitch. Prop your foot up on the edge of the tub like you would if you were going to shave your legs to give yourself some semi-solid footing and allow easy-ish entry make sure you have a very sturdy bathmat so you don't slip. Then everyone needs to just hold the hell on to whatever's available—soap holders, towel racks, shower door. Safety helmets optional. Bring your bath toys in with you for slippery-slidey fun. Penis-havers get a masturbation sleeve , V-holders a waterproof vibe. Smooch under the steamy downpour and instead of using your toys on yourselves, which you can do any old shower, use them on each other.
Who doesn't get a little turned on when their partner joins them in the shower? The cascading water, the steam, the delicious aromas wafting through the air, and the spanking-clean, naked skin are total aphrodisiacs. But let's be real: Shower sex ain't easy to pull off. All the same things that make it so hot—the slipperiness, the crammed quarters—also make it logistically challenging. To get it on without slipping and sliding all over the place, try one of these 10 shower sex positions. How to do it: Lean back against the shower wall while your partner stands in front of you—then wrap one leg around their waist or ask them to hold the back of your knee in the crook of their elbow to make this move a little easier on you. From this angle, they can penetrate you, finger you, use a waterproof vibrator, or do pretty much whatever your heart and body desires. Plus, this position allows you to have sex face-to-face, which is nice because it's so intimate and you get a good view. How to do it: Put your palms against the shower wall, leaning toward it at a degree angle with your knees slightly bent for comfort.
If you've ever had shower sex that made you feel like a wet chihuahua—shivering, uncomfortable, and letting the person manhandling you bark directions—you're not alone. Getting dirty in the place that you go to get clean is far more complicated than any rom-com side-eyeing you, How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days , Friends With Benefits or porno suggests. Two, water is not I repeat, NOT a lubricant—in fact, it can actually make you feel more dry than wet I know, the irony. And last but not least, there is absolutely nothing sexy about accidentally taking a gulp of hot water up your nose or in your mouth when you're trying to focus on getting your O. But before you cross shower sex off your sex bucket list for good, you may want to give it another go. Now that you know how to have hot shower sex, here are the 10 best shower sex positions to tackle tonight and tomorrow morning, and the next This position gives you tons of G-spot and clitoral stimulation, so you can get in and out of the shower read: reach orgasm fast. You can either place your hands onto the shower wall for support—or if your partner has good traction that grippy bath mat, people! Your partner should enter you from behind, thrusting with their hands anchored on your hips, breasts, clit, whatever.